Here's how it works. By some miracle of G-d, both children are playing independently. I seize the moment and leave the room (because I know if I stay in the room, the window of opportunity before either of my momma's boys needs me is probably less than a minute). Sometimes I attempt to get stuff done, and sometimes I just come sit on the couch in peace
I guess we need to keep working on it, right? Seriously, though, I feel like just like anything else if I want my boys to get good at playing independently and even with each other, I need to give them opportunities to do so! So I plan to keep at it!